The Future -
Some
might say technology is good. Some might say technology is bad. Both opinions
would be correct. As evidenced by any individual utilizing modern technology,
these advances certainly do make our lives easier. Inventions such as e-mail
and instant messaging have made personal and professional communications
easier. Corporations are able to communicate with employees face-to-face via
video teleconferencing technology. Using the same technology, families are able
to communicate with friends and family members across many miles and time
zones. Additionally, the invention of social media such as Facebook has allowed
friends and family keep in touch and stay up-to-date on one another’s lives.
And for goodness sakes, what did we do before the Google Maps app???
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Life before the Google Maps app |
However,
at what price comes our easier lifestyle? For example, in 2011 Facebook was
cited in a third of all divorce filings. In addition, more than 80 percent of
divorce attorneys in the United States say, “social networking in divorce
proceedings is on the rise” (Lupkin, 2012). Furthermore, an article written by
psychotherapist, Kim Schneiderman, exposes the idea that social media, while
all the craze, may not be the healthiest outlet from an emotional perspective.
The author believes that social media sites “offers the online universe a whole
new arsenal to offend, snub, flirt, spy on” (Schneiderman, 2011). This article
references research by psychologists at Edinburgh Napier University which
findings revealed a connection between stress levels and the number of Facebook
friends one may have. Schneiderman relates a number of various situations as a
result of Facebook including a “defriending” war, political arguments, divorced
couples, passive-aggressive behavior, envy, jealousy, etc.
Lupkin, S. (2012). Can Facebook Ruin Your Marriage?
Schneiderman, K. (2011).
Cyberspying and Defriending: How Facebook is Finding its
Way
to the Therapy Couch. The Novel
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Turkle,
S. (2012). Connected, but Alone? Ted Talk.